Yeah...it's a bitch.
It hits you in the guts when a babe prefers your friend over you. Sucks more when you have no idea why. A guy at work has been going through some rough shit over it. The thing is...it's pretty narcissitic to believe women will flock to you. The other thing...that not one will please you. I get it. I feel the hurt as well. And these feelings as a man don't subside. Why you see idiots stalking people.
At the core of jealousy is acceptance. Most people want something they can't have. No brainer. You realize most women tend to gravitate towards the one that don't treat them all that well. I think the reasoning being they don't feel they deserve it. It's a painful joke. A value system they also relegate to handbags and shoes (you know it's true).
The point of your life is to move on through this disaster. Move on and forgive. Especially if you consider them a friend. You have to, to be mature and grow. Our biology may detest it, but it's part of life you can't control.
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