Monday, November 4, 2024

Women Don't Give A Shit About You

Okay, folks, here's the reality. If you are suffering through life, women don't give a fuck. And you shouldn't give a fuck about them either. Frankly, they're as disposable as we are. The human race is at a point where the women are trying to outdo each other in looking like whores. To attact men. Having some kids. And raising losers. A good dude isn't what they want. Because a good dude doesn't/shouldn't go for that. They also should get with a woman who does care about the struggles and will struggle together. Full disclosure, I've been dumped plenty of times. Because I acted like a bitch. Women don't go for weak bitch. THEY are weak bitches. So that's that. Do NOT expect appreciation from them unless they want something from you. As you may have experienced...women fish all the time. They worship the ground of the man who does the least for them but looks good, to the guy who supports and nurtures her. That is because women want to fix bad. They can't fix a car. So fixing an emotion is just as good. The problem?: You guessed it, they use it to manipulate. Women, more or less, want to be left alone. Occasionally pop your head out to see if they need anything. You won't get shit. But she'll want something if she's nice to you. Or they fish for your attention. They are ruthless, fellas.

Saturday, November 2, 2024

The Thing About The Elderly

I've absolutely no problem with old people. In my culture we are taught to respect them. Why wouldn't you? They lived long enough to see different iterations of life. Though most of us think we are unique, in the bigger picture we share similar issues. Trauma. Loss. Tragedy. Love. Anger. And so forth. However, there are some elderly these days that refuse to embrace their elderly-ness. That's when you bristle at their attitude. There is a 60+ year old co-worker of mine who can't seem to understand things. He does things HIS way. And he messes things up. Only to do those things again. Frustrating to watch. If you get upset, the people around you tend to take their side. Which is unfortunate as they don't see the resistance to change. My supervisor (who is 70+ himself) tends to say things like "he won't change" "he's not going to do what you tell him, so why bother?" This is true. At the same time, I reserve the right to berate his incompetence. My supervisor also tells me that he is attempting to save jobs. He doesn't listen or process well. Because if I am guiding him through the processes of how we do things, this is me attempting to save his job. The higher ups above my supervisor knows. To be fair, he doesn't really care about much. He doesn't want conflict. He's a colossal pussy. And he never wanted to be put in charge. He is perfectly happy being a button pusher. I know he gets the feeling that I think I'm better than him. In a way...yes, I am. Not in better as a human. He is a much better human. In terms of Buddhist live and let live attitude. But he's an idiot when it comes to being curious about life. He is a failed photographer. And...truth be told, for someone who trained hard to be one, his photos are awful. Objectively, sure. But they are bad. His composition skills are lacking. Nothing he takes is all that interesting. I think because his intellect gets in the way of creativity. The intellect tells you to expose well and use "the rules of three" The creative tells you it's all bullshit. What comes within you to be unique is what is much more effective. Try telling that to a 70 year old. Still, people should care and take pride in what they do. I think they stopped a long time ago and just see it as a job.